Dear Women🕊

November 29, 2020

Dear Women🕊

Dear women,

Even though this world is too fragile to handle you, you handled yourself so well. You were strong when you were vulnerable and confused. You made others believe that they could do better in their lives, and you kept motivating yourself too. You’re too docile to be treated wrongly and unwelcomely. You have to carry yourself in two ways every time you dress. How do you see yourself? And how does the person in front of you see you? But you do what you do like a normal human. But, in this patriarchy and feminism theory, you still wanted to be seen as an equal human.

And still, the people around you showed you how they think and how they see you. not as a normal person but as an asset to them. Relatives see you as an unmarried girl getting ready to be married; your friends see you as a person who enjoys their life and is always happy. But nobody sees you. And you have been thinking about how you are going to face yourself when someone asks you. How is life, and how are you?

Every day, there is brutality and cruelty towards women. Every news channel, portal, blog, and newspaper is filled with stories about crimes against women. When we read everyday headlines, that creates hesitation and trauma as well. How safe are you? It has always been a question in your mind. And how safe is this place or home you are living in?

But you don’t worry about how someone watches you or gazes at you. Watch how you have grown from all the obstacles and hurdles you have faced, and you are still growing in a beautiful direction in life. How come you don’t appreciate yourself? You are beautiful in all ways.

People say that you’re too fat for a dress, too thin for jeans, and too full of makeup for a simple occasion. Not only you, but we all are balancing our lives between too much and too little, and maybe everything in between. But how come you are so strong that you don’t cry in front of anyone but in the bathroom and under the blanket?

I saw you. I saw a strong woman. Coming out of those sheets every day, waking up, putting her bun up, grabbing a cup of coffee, sitting with a book, and watching the sun rise.

Isn’t it beautiful that you have outgrown everything and everyone and never rumbled on those stones? You are sitting peacefully, waiting for another hurdle to come.

You're Strong. You deserve all the love someone has to offer you. Don’t you question yourself because of the unquestionable creatures outside?

Love

strong woman